Happy Mommy Moment

I had a successful mommy moment today. I feel like I should write it down to remember how good it felt to follow my instincts and exercise patience. It may seem like a small thing to some, especially to those mothers of just little ones but it was a big deal for me.

When I picked up Jolie from school today she handed me a note from her teacher stapled to her agenda. Here is what it said, "I let Halle and Jolie go to the restroom in the middle of State Test since they said it was an emergency. They were gone a very long time. I had to have another teacher cover my class while I went to look for them. They were talking, goofing off and walking really slow. As a result the entire school was delayed recess since our class was the last one finished."

Now Jolie is no perfect student. She has been known to get a warning here and there for talking, she loves to talk! So I wasn't shocked to get the note, but for some reason it sort of bugged me.

I would normally give her a pretty good scolding for something like this. It is a bigger deal than usual. But when I opened my mouth to give a speech and punishment I heard a voice in my head telling me to stop and wait. To just hold off a while before reacting.

We didn't mention it again until about half way on our walk home. She turned to me and said, "Mom, I thought you were going to yell at me for sure!" I just smiled and said I didn't feel like yelling about it. Then 1 block later I noticed she was wiping tears from her eyes. I asked her what was wrong and she just grabbed me in a big hug and told me how awful it was, how her teacher had yelled at her in front of the whole class and told her she ruined recess for the whole school and how she didn't mean to get in trouble.

I felt so thankful in that moment that I had been able to curb my all too often temper with her and actually listen to what this little person needed from her mother. I so often jump to conclusions and rush to anger at silly things like this. I needed to document this to remind myself how good it felt to be there for my baby in all of the little struggles in her life.

I love that girl, she is so wonderful.